to be able to say that I forced or coerced someone to be in a relationship with me.
Any kind of relationship. Platonic or romantic. I think hearing people say “I feel manipulated” or “I stay because I don’t know what you’ll do” is the worst.
So many relationships around me look unhealthy and it just makes me tilt my head to the side.
The people who say they “hate” drama are always the ones mixed up in it
One of of my friends today said “There is a certain charm to your evasiveness but after a while it gets exhausting and starts to feel pretty hurtful” (not about me) and it hit me like a rock because its SO TRUE.
Like those people who purposefully wait to text back when you know they’re the kind of people who are NEVER without their phone.
Or who make you question your life in circles because they need to have it their way or no way instead of YOUR way.
Or who only make really vague plans so you’re never sure until the day of if they’re happening or not.
Or, or, or the people who make the lamest excuses ever. I’m so done with excuses. I’m either going to do something or I’m not but I am adult enough to understand that I will be accountable either way. We all have 24 hours in a day just like celebrities and authors and Beyonce.
I just feel like no one is straight-up anymore and it drives me fucking crazy.